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Alright. Remember a couple weeks ago when I told
you that my best friend – one of my very

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best friends in the world – was applying
for a PhD in Philosophy and she sent me

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her application essay? Well: she got she
got IN! She got into her first choice school. I’m screaming because I’m so excited.

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Got into her first choice school with money –
funding to help her do it and I’m like,

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Black woman getting a PhD in Philosophy
and a Black woman getting a PhD in

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Philosophy who wants to talk about race
and racism within that. I’m SO excited. So anyway – shout out – I’m not

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gonna say your name out loud because you
may not want me to, but I’m so proud of

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you and I love you so much!

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Congratulations. Last weekend Mama Trudy
and I went to go see this great play

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called “The Ice Cream Gene” by Susan
Ito and it is about the trans-racially

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adopted experience. And the play starts
off when Susan is meeting her

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birth mother for the first time. So
already there’s all this tension at the

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top of the play – and I’m like,”I understand that – what it feels like to have
tension in the top of your play. So – do

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you do this when you’re watching another
performer at the top of a play – you’re just

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feeling like all the feels – everything
they’re going through at that moment – so

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much pressure but that’s how she starts the
show and then she takes us on the

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journey of finding her birth mother and
it’s so moving and touching. So if it

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comes near you anywhere, I’ll put a link
to her website and her information – go

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see it. It was lovely. OK so I think I told
you about Lilah Greenberg who has come

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on to help us book One Drop of Love and
she’s amazing. I can’t believe the amount

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of work she’s done so she’s helping me
fulfill all of those goals that I talked

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about in each video. She has sent out a bunch
of emails both to new places to kind of

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pitch the show and also doing outreach
to people in Mesa. And I got tickets for her

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to come to Mesa. So she’s gonna come to
Mesa. Chandra’s

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already in Phoenix so we’re all gonna
hang out together – hopefully

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we’ll have a little bit of time to do a
little One Drop retreat session and do

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some strategic planning. I’m really
excited to have her there and I think

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it’s going to be a great way to incorporate her into the show

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and she can see how things go in
different cities because she saw it in

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Cambridge which is like where we get so
much support and love and amazing but

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to see it in another city is just it’s a
whole different experience.

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Chandra booked the show in high school
so in a high school – THANK YOU CHANDRA! In Tempe, Arizona so

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I’ll give you details on that. I just – I
want to say how much I love working with

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women. I love men and there a lot of
men that I really really love and I

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respect and I think are great but I just –
I guess there’s something incredible and

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moving about working with women because
I think we are not always expected to

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take charge especially in the business sense
and then really make things happen and

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seeing how much these two women
are working on behalf of the show – which

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also means working on behalf of social
justice, on behalf of encouraging people

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to share their stories and melding
history, historical context, all together

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with sharing your story it’s just amazing and
I feel so grateful to have them and to

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be working with them. So: shout out to
WOMEN! Work with women if you haven’t, I

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highly recommend it. Alright I wanna talk to
you about your Day Job. So if you

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don’t know, if you’re not an artivist or an
actor or performer a lot of us obviously we

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have to pay the bills and you will
without question when you’re starting

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off and for a very long time and perhaps
forever you will have to do something

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that is not directly acting related in
order to survive. And so a lot of actors

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I know work in restaurants,

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they’re bartenders, hosts and I’ve done
some of that too, but I also have to say

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that I probably have well I’m biased but
I think one of the best possible Day

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Jobs for an actor which is that I teach
ESL. I teach at a community college

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nearby and it is so incredibly rewarding.
My students are from all over. The area

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where I teach is predominantly Armenian,
so a lot of them are Armenian; we also recently

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have a huge influx of Syrian students
and working with them makes me

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constantly grateful for the life that I
have and the life that I’m able to

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choose knowing what they are coming from
and knowing what they’ve experienced in

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their countries and their reasons behind
needing to come here. Also I love that

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they don’t give a crap about Hollywood.
And as much as I will admit that there

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are – in many ways I am driven by
getting validation from this system that

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on sometimes I hate and sometimes I
want to be a part of because I want to

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change it, I love that when I walk into
that classroom and I say something like,

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Did anybody hear about this “OscarsSoWhite” and they’re like, “We don’t
know. We don’t care. We need to feed our

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children. It’s refreshing to be reminded
that there are more important things

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than just being considered for an Oscar
much more important things. They’re just

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beautiful people not to mention by the
way I highly recommend this job – so I teach

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English as a Second Language. It is a
perfect job for theater actors because

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first of all my classes 55 students so I
have to project. It’s a huge class.

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I have to protect my voice. I also am
performing for – the class is three hours

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in this session – three and a half hours in the
longer sessions, and so I am performing

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the whole time – which means I have to make the class entertaining. So

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I’m using my skills of being

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an entertaining energetic
person to get this lesson across and I

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have to say there is no question in my
mind that that has been incredibly

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helpful for me thinking about how to
keep the audience interested how to have

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the audience interact within the play
and feel like they are part of this

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journey that were going on. So I’m so
grateful for that job. It’s really

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truly I feel so incredibly fortunate for
that to be my “Day Job.”

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OK whooo here’s the hard thing about being an artivist – we talked about

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marketing which is really hard

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the other thing is being a
businessperson. Somebody told me once –

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a therapist – told me, “All is fair in
business.” Ugh. And it was such a hard lesson to learn

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because I’ve worked with folks who
didn’t have integrity in business

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dealings – and that just hurt my heart
so much and I was like, “How can this be?”

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and she said, “Look, if
you’re interested in being in business –

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profit business – because yes I would like
to make money from my art, which

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sustains me to continue to do what I
think is important in the world. But: All

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is fair in that – and I thought, “OK, so I
can still be committed to maintaining my

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integrity and being fair with other
people, but I also have to accept that

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there are lots and lots of folks out
there who are not going to be fair and

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who don’t care about advancing justice
for other people and so

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so…all to say that I worked on accounting
this week and it was it’s not fun so I

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have to do W9s and 10199s for folks that
worked on One Drop this year – and I am so

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proud that I was able to pay some people
some money for working on the show, but

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it’s a lot of work and I guess I
would just encourage you to learn how to

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do all of that, up front, and be really
organized about who you pay and when and

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for what. That’s what I’m doing that will be
in my goals for 2016 because I did ok with

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it, but I could have done a lot better. I
applied to two more Film Festivals this

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week. I applied to the Oaxaca Film
Festival and to Reel Sisters, so I’ll

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keep you posted on those. I also heard from
one film festival the DC

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Independent Film Festival – we didn’t get
into that. It’s all good. It’s ALL good. We’ll just keep waiting to see

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how things go. I got asked to potentially
Assistant Direct a show at the Boston

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Court Theatre. I read the script, I’m gonna
meet with the Director this weekend – and

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I’ll let you know how that goes. OK oh my
gosh. Tonight. Tonight

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Mama Trudy, Carol Banker and I are going to
see Sarah Jones in #SellBuyDate. Sarah Jones. You probably know who she is

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if you’re following this channel. She was a huge
inspiration for One Drop. I’ll put links

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to her incredible TED Talk and other work
of hers. She’s…I want to learn from her

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and so if I if there’s any way I can
even just shake her hand tonight, I

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will . But we’re going to see her tonight
and I’ll let you know how that goes next

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week. She is a true artivist. She tells
it like it is. She tells true stories and

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her goal is always to make positive
change

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and that’s what I want to
do, so I cannot wait. I can’t wait!

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OK goals this week. This week I wanna
have at least one new venue booked for

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One Drop so I’ll let you know how that
goes. What are your goals? What are you

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going to accomplish this week? Write in
the comments or make a video, tag me in

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the video

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whatever but also as I said at the top, what is
your day job? Let’s talk about what we

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all do and do we love it? And if we don’t love
it, let’s talk about other things we can

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do so we are enjoying life until we can
sustain ourselves as artivists.

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Shout outs to Chrystelyn and Kathryn new
subscribers to the channel. Thank you for

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subscribing. Kathryn and I were great
friends at University of Michigan and

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something that makes me so so happy is
when folks that I’ve done theater with

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long ago are still doing it. She’s an actor,
she’s done lots of TV. Check out her reel

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and her clips at her YouTube
channel. Homegirl is working. She’s a

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working actor. OK so let’s work together,
let’s make things happen you all. Keep me

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posted. I’ll keep you posted. Have a
wonderful, wonderful week. Kicked butt.

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Work with women work. I am saying WORK WITH WOMEN. I’ll talk to you next week! Bye bye.